Monday, May 25, 2020

Homeschool: Frequently Asked Questions



If you've been curious about homeschooling but don't know where to start or whether it's the right choice, today I am sharing some frequently asked Homeschool questions. I am no expert, but I am a homeschool graduate (K-12) as well as a homeschool mom (1st grade and toddler). These answers will be from my own experiences and research, which I hope helps you as you do your own research!

Question 1. Where to start?

As you google 'what to use for homeschool' you may be bombarded with all sorts of curriculum choices and methods. You have no idea how to homeschool, much less what method you prefer! Take a deep breath, give yourself some grace, and let me reassure you that there isn't much of a right/wrong answer to this. 
When starting to think about homeschool/methods/curriculum, my first suggestion is this:

Visit your local homeschool group/co-op
Get some information from those been there, done that homeschool moms who can let you know what has worked for them and what hasn't. They can also tell you what sort of co-ops and clubs they offer to help you decide what you need. 

Start off semi-traditional and go from there
This recommendation is more for those who are pulling their kids out of school. While you can use a boxed curriculum set like Abeka or Lifepacks, I would suggest using Timberdoodle's curriculum sets. They can be tailored to fit the kid, price is comparable, and it will be much more enjoyable than some of the other textbooks. This is great if you have a kid who is use to the stricter structure of public school, but it allows you to tailor to their needs at the same time. My cousin uses Easy Peasy which can be a free resource if you need something more frugal. From what I've gathered it's more traditional, but very well put together, and her kids have done well! If you are just starting out with preschool or Kindergarten:

Use an all-in-one curriculum that plans your year out for you

I have used The Peaceful Press for this, and I loved it! It is a less traditional method that still allows all subjects to be covered.  This can also be used for older grades as well, but be ready to enter the world 
of non-traditional where sometimes subjects aren't merely a read and answer questions format, but exploration and hands on experience. 
Also, there's the mix and match approach that I do. This may take a year or two to figure out, as you gather how your child learns and use the curriculum that best fits them at the time. 


Question 2. Am I qualified?
Even though I was homeschooled and had enjoyed my preschool year with my son, I was terrified of teaching Little Man important concepts like phonics and math. What if I failed? Can I tell you something? Most people approach this subject out of love and a yearning to give their children the best education possible. (not saying the opposite is true for those public schooling, not at all! Just that the decision to homeschool is such a thought out decision) That love will be turned into a passion for educating your children to the best of your ability (if you don't believe me, go to a homeschool meeting...those people are passionate!!) This means turning to outside sources (this can be tutors, online learning, co-op, etc) when something goes beyond your knowledge. What you may find, however, that you are learning and growing, right along with your children, and able to teach them those important concepts, just fine! Something that goes along with that is:

Question 3. What about upper levels?
Algebra, chemistry, physics and other such subjects can be rather daunting, especially if you don't remember anything you learned from high school. My mom actually didn't take Algebra in school! Thankfully, I was able to use the textbooks and learn, and once my siblings got older, there were amazing programs like Teaching Textbooks that helped with those difficult subjects! (also there were older siblings at that point, who could help out as well) Mom also relied on curriculum like Apologia, and Chemistry 101 to help take the load off of her. As I stated before, if your kids is simply not grasping the subject, ask for help! You don't have to have a Chemistry degree to teach chemistry, just a good curriculum and a community to help. 

Question 4. But What about SOCIALIZATION!!! 
No joke, this is what gets asked the most. Not are you qualified to teach your kid?, not what extra curricular things are they involved in? no! it's How does your kid socialize if they aren't in public school?!!
Believe it or not, it was socialization that really was the deciding factor on whether or not I homeschooled. Even though I had been homeschooled, I was open minded about public and private school. My husband teaches in an amazing district, with so many godly teachers that the thought of my son being taught there didn't bother me. What bothered me was the innocence being taken away by the child's own peers. Even in Kindergarten, they can be bullied, taught bad language, and be told too many intimate details on what they are allowed to watch or what they see at home. I wanted to teach my child Biblical principals, and surround him with people who love the Lord (I don't live in a bubble. We are going to be in the world, but it was important to me to give him the best possible environment). I also liked how I was raised. We could just as easily talk to an adult as to someone our own age. This actually helped us more as we entered the 'real world' than if we had been raised to mostly talk to people our own age. 
With that all said, you have every opportunity to make sure your child gets the socialization they need. Homeschool groups, sports, Co-ops, ballet, gymnastics can all be a sources of interaction. 

Do you have other questions or concerns? Be sure to leave a comment or follow me on Facebook or Instagram. Feel free to ask away!
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Monday, May 18, 2020

Tot School Supplies and Activities





Last week I shared what I will be doing with my almost 2 year old. Today I want to share with you some of the activities and supplies you can use that go with the themes I mentioned last week. Here are some of my favorite supplies for little ones:
Stickers
Pom poms
Playdoh (this may not happen quite yet with Baby Girl, as she it still bad about trying to eat things!)
Normal Art Supplies (construction paper, glue, etc)

Books and Activities:
Farm Theme
With this theme I want focus on animal vocabulary and the sounds the animals make. 

Activities: farm animal puzzle,  farm animal Little People play, animal stickers (along with other art supplies for motor skill activities, farm sensory play, farm animal part of the Animal Bingo Game

Colors
I will teach what the colors are, but my main focus is for Baby girl to recognize like colored items.

Activities
Pom pom sort, Finger paint, Construction paper art (cut paper into pieces and let toddler glue them where they like), make a fruit loop necklace, Dot a Dot painting page


Zoo
The reason this one is here, is that I believe this will be about the time we do a field trip at a zoo. I would love for her to know some of the animal names and sounds they make. 

Activities:
Zoo play with stuffed animals, Construction paper/paper plate animal craft, Animal from Dot a Dot painting page, Animal sensory play, zoo animal part of the Animal Bingo Game

Pumpkins
Little Man will probably do some pumpkin science and learning during this time, as well, so this is a great time for them to get to learn together!

Books: I have several little Autumn time books with Winnie the Pooh, Clifford, and such. I bring them out during this time up until Thanksgiving, so we will probably read some of those. I don't have a specific pumpkin book, so we might borrow one from the library. 
Activities: Explore a pumpkin (sensory play with seeds and guts. You can also put this in a ziplock bag for those little ones too grossed out, or if you want to keep it less messy), Paint a pumpkin, Pumpkin craft

Fall/Thanksgiving
November is often busy with gearing up for the upcoming holidays that I wanted to make this time as simple as possible. I want to focus on the thought of saying 'thank-you' for things. 
Books: Similar to Pumpkin Theme, Bear Says Thanks
Activities: Nature walk to gather leaves, leaf rubbings, make a turkey place mat, Fall sticker activity ( I have Thanksgiving themed stickers that Baby Girl will use on construction paper). 
Christmas
Again, this is a busy time! It's at this time I will be pulling out the Shepherd on the Search and both Little Man and Baby Girl will be doing activities with him. The focus this month will be on the reason for the season-Jesus!
Books: Who's Coming to Our House? ( I love this book!), Little Truck's Christmas, Story books of the first Christmas
Activities: Gingerbread house, Christmas tree sticker activity , Little People Manger play, handmade Christmas crafts for Grandparents

Body Parts and Getting Dressed
The focus here will be on vocabulary (arms, legs, belly, nose, eyes, etc.) also learning some independent skills, like putting clothes on herself

Books: My First Body Book (Little Man will be going through this at the same time, so they can look at this book together), Sesame Street I can Dress Myself, What will you wear today?
Activities: Identify body parts using stickers, sing 'head shoulders knees and toes', Work on dressing herself, Mellissa and Doug dress up magnet activity

Fairy Tales and Dress-up
Purely fun, but I thought this would be a great time to read classic fairy tales, watch Beauty and the Beast (for the 100th time) and let her play dress up. It will be winter time, so it will be fun to have some movie days and indoor play! 

Books: Fairy Tale Treasury Book (we have a version that I can't find a link to), She also has some Disney Princess Board Books, That's not my Princess
Activities, Melissa and Doug Dress up magnet activity, play dress up with scarves, shoes, and tiara (this may be some Christmas gifts!), movie day with Fairy Tale movie, and help mom with a snack to go with it!

Hearts/Love
There are so many cute valentine crafts for this age! Talk about love and not only how much I as a parent love her, but also how much Jesus Loves her. Motor skills and knowing a heart shape is the focus for this theme. 

Books: I Love You
Activities: Heart googly eye craft, heart sticker activity, learn 'Jesus loves me'

Grocery Store
Simple counting, sorting, and vocabulary building will be this themes focus. I am sure Little Man will want to join in, and we can add some adding/subtracting and counting money to this for him. 

Books: Toddler Counting books (I may have one or two of these. May need to do a library run for this theme!)
Activities: Set up play kitchen to be a grocery store, make a simple 'grocery list' and see if toddler can find the objects, do some fun counting activities with both food items and other items in the toy room

Rainbows
Colors is our focus here. Even though it was covered earlier in the year, it will be good to focus on it again.

Books: Noah's Ark story in Bible Book, look at weather section in Nature Anatomy
Activities: Dot A Dot page, Pom pom rainbow, Fruit loop Rainbow, Finger paint, rainbow in a bag

Weather
We will most likely be focusing on this with Little Man as well. Things like water cycle and cloud formation will be above her head, but she can still participate in some of the activities.
Books: Magic School Bus Weather, How do you say it today, Jessie Bear (seasons book), Nature Anatomy
Activities: Handprint Seasons craft, shaving cream cloud play, cotton ball cloud craft

Bugs
Again, we are getting to the point where Little Man's nature studies and Baby Girl's themes collide (less work on mom, right?!). Vocabulary building and sensory play are the focus for this week
Books: Usborne lift a flap bug book, A very hungry caterpillar, Bug nature books that Little Man has
Activities: Bug counter sensory play, nature walk to look for bugs, bug craft, butterfly craft, Bug part of the Animal Bingo game

Gardening
This is about the time I should be planting my garden, and there won't be many activities this time around, outside of being outside and helping mom plant, water, and weed the garden. 
Books: Springtime board books

Ocean and the Beach
Lord willing, we will be planning a trip to the beach for the summer, so I thought this would be the perfect way to end our Tot School. Sensory play, vocabulary building, learning about fish and ocean creatures will be the main focus for this theme

Books: Shine a Light ocean book (Little Man will need to help with this), Under the Sea with Me
Activities: cupcake liner fish craft, Dot a Dot picture, sea shell and water bead sensory play, Blue ocean salt painting

Follow me on Pinterest to see more Tot School activities! Be sure to tag me on Instagram if you wind up following my Tot School Schedule this year. I would love to see your learning at home journey!

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Sunday, May 10, 2020

Tot School For an Almost 2 Year Old


I know what you're thinking - '2 is too little to be thinking about school!' and you would be correct! The toddler years are for exploring, vocabulary building, fun. So while this is true, it doesn't mean you can't have some fun, focused play time where you focus on vocabulary building, motor and practical skills. As many of you know, I am pregnant right now, and will give birth right before school starts, so let me reassure you, we will be doing simple easy-to-do activities and crafts. There may also be days (or weeks) where I simply am overwhelmed with what I need to do that I simply bring out chunky puzzles, finger paint, or building blocks. Those things, while maybe not in 'theme' will still help instill the motor skills she needs to succeed!

Just like I did for Little Man, when he started preschool, I started out by jotting down some goals for Baby Girl.


  • fine and gross motor skill building
  • ability to sort by like colors
  • increased vocabulary
  • learn skills for independence (learning to dress herself, get things for herself, etc. )

These are simple skills that can be applied to almost any theme, and that's where the fun begins! Here are my themes for the year. I am doing 2 weeks per theme, so that if something comes up, shes just not feeling the activity, or anything else that might happen, we can still have extra days for that theme. 

September
Farm Animals
Colors

October
Zoo
Pumpkins

November
Fall (leaves, harvest, Thanksgiving)

December
Christmas
January
Body Parts and Getting Dressed
Fairy tales and dress up


February
Hearts/Love
Grocery Store
March
Rainbows
Weather

April
Bugs
Gardening

May:
Ocean and beach 

Next Week I'll be sharing activities to go with each theme, and supplies that I always keep at the house, as well as things I plan to add to this year!

If you are planning out your own tot school for your toddler, remember that each kid is different and go at their own pace. I try to keep the goals as simple as possible. Learning her colors and shapes will hopefully be a result as we do these activities, but I don't want to feel defeated if she doesn't have them all down. There's plenty of time in preschool for that, or even tot school 2.0! Next year I plan to do another year of tot school, but perhaps with some more advanced goals in mind. Do you have a toddler you would like to do some 'school' with? You can follow me on Pinterest, where I'll be adding activities throughout the year!







Monday, May 4, 2020

First Grade Curriculum Overview 2020

Now that you know what worked last year, and how I want to change things this year, you may be interested to know just what I chose for this year and why! I am here to share all of Little Man's subjects with you. There are a couple I am still finalizing, but if you follow me on Facebook or Instagram, I'll be sharing any updates there. Now for the run down of subjects for Little Man:

Bible:
For Bible I am using what my mom did with me when I was little, and recently shared it with me. It's old and I can't find a link to it, sorry. It is more of a 'Bible Curriculum' in that it has a Bible story, and then questions. Since my curriculum this year is more 'traditional', I want to make sure that Little Man is still getting opportunities to share what he learned during a reading, to make sure he is retaining information.

Read Alouds:
Last year we did The Playful Pioneers and loved it! Our favorite part was the rich literature we were able to read aloud together as a family (and for the past 6 weeks, even my husband got to join in!). This year isn't looking exactly the same, but I still want fun books that I can read aloud as I nurse my newborn. As you'll see in History, we will be going over American History. For read alouds I'll read some that we read as extras for The Playful Pioneers, as well as some that I've collected over the course of this past year. I am linking some of them here:




History:
My tired of school, 5th grade self said my kids would never do Abeka, but here I am using it for my 1st grader! Technically it's just a history and geography workbook, and I will be doing my very best to make it as fun as possible. I'm hoping that with the amazing read alouds we will be doing, it will make the 'boring' history facts come alive to Little Man. My mom had given me this workbook we had used, and I just can never say no to free! 

We will also be using the Culture Club at our homeschool group as geography as well. I am also adding this fun activity book to go with our United States learning. Some things are a bit above his reading level, so we will just pick and choose what to do this year.

Science: This is one I haven't quite nailed down yet. I know I will be using the Usborne Body Book (see review here) as a health and body science book. Little Man also likes Magic School Bus books, and we might use those as a jumping off point for different topics. I also want to use these beautiful Anatomy books to explore nature. There are some great, free nature study resources on Pinterest that I plan to use to journal what we are exploring outside. Oh, and the Ocean Anatomy book is on my current wish list!




Phonics :
We will continue to use what I did last year. Explode the Code, Phonics games and readers, and the vintage phonics program my mom gave me. His reading has come a long way this past year, and I am excited about how much it will grow this next year! I have some general goals with his reading, but I really want him to be able to go at his own pace.

Handwriting: I will continue with A Reason For Handwriting (review here). I will be doing Book A with Little Man, and follow their recommendation for transitioning him to cursive for 2nd grade.


Math:
Here is the biggest change, I think! I am switching from Saxon to Math U See. After seeing siblings go through this curriculum, and after research, I think this will fit my son and our family a little better. I am starting with Alpha, although I think we will be speeding through the first part of the curriculum. Having a dvd teacher, and simple worksheets to work through, will make things a little easier, as we transition to having a newborn again.

I want to add that things like art, critical thinking skills, and practical skills will be a part of our year too! I like to add art projects to our science, and I will continue to include our Timberdoodle games for thinking skills.

That is it! I am hoping as the year progresses, I can update you on my opinions on each subject, what readers my son enjoys, and how the transition really is working. If you have any questions on any of this, leave a comment below, or ask me on Instagram or Facebook!
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Monday, April 27, 2020

Saying Goodbye to my Ideal Homeschool Year

After the stress and heartache of infertility and loss between Little Man and Baby Girl, my husband and I were DONE with having kids. God must have chuckled a little at how set I was, and 4 days after Baby Girl turned 1, I got a positive pregnancy test! Thinking about how hectic life will be with a first grader and 2 under 2, I really wanted to simplify school for this next year (you can read how I am simplifying life, here). Please don't take this as I am simplifying, or lessening his education, rather, I am waving the white flag of surrender to the ideal homeschool year I thought I wanted.

What does that mean exactly?

It means no fancy curriculum with elaborate activities.

It means finding more curriculum that can be done independently.

It means saying goodbye to activity filled, book studies.

It means there may not be trendy, Pinterest worthy bookshelves and bulletin boards. No perfect baskets organized by what we are studying that day, having planned it all in advance (and let's be honest, for me that wasn't happening anyway!)

What it doesn't mean:

It doesn't mean boring textbooks.

It doesn't mean long study hours or even slapped together lessons.

It doesn't mean we won't have a fun filled, nature rich, amazing year!

One of the beauties of homeschool, is the ability to tailor curriculum to fit your child and your year. This is what homeschool will look like for us this year. Next year might be different, but it will for sure be exactly what we need for that year. Please don't beat yourself up, or give up, if you've found that the perfect homeschool year you saw on someone's Instagram feed isn't happening for you. Know that they have their not so perfect days, and maybe even not so perfect years!









Monday, April 20, 2020

What has worked this year...and what hasn't

No one likes to admit defeat, but sometimes you have to acknowledge that things don't work, to be able to go forward. Today I'll be sharing what I have loved about this year's curriculum, and what isn't working. Next week I'll share what I am planning to change for next year!

What's working:
The Playful Pioneers: Here you can find my previous post all about this wonderful curriculum. Although I am changing things up, it DID work for this year. I loved it so much, that when it's time for Baby Girl, and Baby #3 to start school, I will be reusing it!

A Reason For Handwriting: You can click here for a more in depth review. Little Man's handwriting has come a long way from the beginning of the year, and it's mostly thanks to this curriculum. Even though we only do it once or twice a week, it has really helped Little Man. He loves the coloring sheet that comes with it, and it is probably his favorite subject of the day.

Explode the Code: It took a while for it to grow on me, but Little Man's reading has really developed using this curriculum. I still think there are a few changes I would make, and it isn't Little Man's favorite thing, but it has worked in terms of his reading level.


What isn't working:


Basically it's just one thing-Math I hate to admit defeat but here it is:

Saxon Math 1: I think I started on the wrong foot when we chose to do Math1 instead of the primer. It had worked well for my siblings, but Little Man was a bit younger than they were, since his birthday is in September. The teacher book is pretty intense with the amount that the parent is involved, and there is normally activities, drills, AND a worksheet. I have broken these up to help him not get frustrated or tired out, but it's made for slow going through the curriculum. We will finish maybe half of the course work by May. Little Man has been successful in understanding the concepts, but I just don't feel like this is the right fit for his personality, or how our life is right now (young toddler, and about to add a newborn). Stay tuned to see what I've chosen for next year!

I want to add that just because something works or doesn't work for me and one of my children, doesn't mean it will be the same for you! I just want to share my experience with you, to hopefully help you with your own curriculum choices. For my mom, and many others, Saxon 1-3 was the perfect choice, but for me I just don't feel like it's been as successful as it should be.











Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Gobblet Gobblers: A Strategy Game from Timberdoodle









 Gobblet Gobblers is an adorable, strategy game from the company Blue Orange. The game is designed for ages 5+. It takes tic-tac-toe to a whole new level! My son giggled at the funny faces the game pieces made, and was quick to figure out how to gobble up his opponents.  My husband also enjoyed this game. He teaches UIL chess (he is a middle school teacher), and he loves strategy games.

Little Man was excited to set up the colorful game pieces, and picked his favorite color for his team-blue. He wasn't as observant the first couple of times he played, but he quickly learned to watch what moves his daddy was making too!

The maneuvers of the game can take a few tries to perfect, but even my 5 year old learned how to set a big piece out, so he could gobble others' pieces (honestly, his favorite part!). He also learned how to move the pieces on the board. I really love how this game teaches kids to think ahead, and observe their opponent.

The one con: My husband stated that the game pieces were a bit tricky to get exactly back in the box. He felt a better alternative would be a little drawstring bag or something similar. That is the only downside, and I highly recommend this product!
On a different day, my son asked me if I would sit down and play with him. To me, that's the true test of a great game. One that gets asked to be played with over and over again are always the best ones! Momma isn't quite as strategic as Daddy, so maybe that's why he asked for me! ha!

To find out more information on this game, click this link. While I received this free in exchange for my review, my opinion is 100% mine. This is a perfect game to complete a thinking skills curriculum, or to just have around the house. I love games that feel challenging and fun for both little ones and parents alike!


I have also added in my Amazon Affiliated list, other games we love that can be played with the whole family!

Habit Resolutions: Minimalist Journey Begins

  A little over two years ago, when I was pregnant with Baby Girl, I had this huge nesting urge to go through my house and declutter. I got ...